Tuesday, October 8, 2013

日久见人心

人心,日久了,冉冉露出真实的一面,而那一面,都是那几个性质:贪婪,自私,背叛,嫉妒,不负责任,忘恩负义等等。

发现人真实面目的经历,我多的是。
生命里会遇上这种人是避免不了的,只看我们懂不懂得去应付。

面对这种人,你只能有三个选择:
一,离开;
二,保持沉默继续和他在一起,;
三,坦白。

很多次想要选择第三,但因为感情太深,有些话,想了一整夜,却始终说不出口。
这一点,我承认,我也很难办到。
正所谓:做人难,做好人更难。

有些时候,情况不由得我们控制,因此我们只好交托给上帝安排一切。

我最讨厌利用我的人,这些人达到他们目的以后就拍拍屁股离开。
我会极度地鄙视这些人,所以,请你不要这样对我,
虽然最后我还是会选择原谅你,因为基督叫我们要爱我们的敌人。

了解他们的”真“心了未免是件坏事,至少让我们以后懂得堤防。
就当作是一种考验,一个磨练耐心的机会。

人的本性是自私的,但我们可以尝试改变,
藉由我们的肉体或许办不到,但我们可以依靠上帝来塑造我们。

3 comments:

Carolyn Leong said...

Winnee, sometimes I don't know if we did offended you any of our actions or words.. I wish you to know that if I did in any way, please do not hesitate to use the third way with me.. I always need a reminder here and there.. Please, when you have something in your mind, do talk to me..

Winnee said...

I'm quite a sensitive person, and yes sometimes you unintentionally did. But, after a while, I choose not to remember, in fact this morning, I just prayed for you and our gang's friendship. I still thank God for knowing each and everyone of you. Be the salt and light among these non-believers Carolyn, produce Good fruits and let them be touched by Christ's love.

~cLyF~Vy said...

Truth be told, people don't really tell me when I did anything wrong or they think it's unsuitable, so, sometimes I don't even know when I offended anyone.. I can see that you are sensitive from the way you reacted.. However, sometimes I can't understand your reaction.. I would like you to remind me every time, as I want to be the salt and the light but I don't know how..